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How to start dirty talking with a partner

But in the context of the bedroom, words that would otherwise feel infantilizing or degrading can feel gender-affirming or deliciously forbidden. Likewise, it’d be pretty weird to call anyone your master, mistress, or goddess outside the bedroom. But in the bedroom, it can imbue you or your partner with a sense of power and confidence that’s just plain hot. Now, we’re not saying you need to dive headfirst into BDSM. And honestly, these labels can feel reductive and cheesy sometimes.

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• In my own experiences, I’ve focused a lot on bringing women to orgasm.
• But in the context of the bedroom, words that would otherwise feel infantilizing or degrading can feel gender-affirming or deliciously forbidden.
• Break it down into nouns, verbs, adjectives, and whatever else you find yourself gravitating towards.
• Keep in mind, though, that your partner may very well want to do that solo work and develop their own word bank.
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This isn’t always the case, and women I spoke with all agree that what we see in typical “girl-on-girl” scenes aren’t true representations of how sex goes down. This story is a work of fiction and contains sex scenes and is suitable for adults only. All characters are fictional and are over 18 years old.

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Aside from the nitty-gritty stuff, though, there are also tons of secondary sexual characteristics for you to explore. What parts of your body feel maybe unexpectedly erotically charged for you? Maybe you love when a partner pays attention to your hair (whether up top or down under), thighs, wrists, collar bone, feet, ears, neck, forehead, cheek, or chin.

• “At first for most people who talk dirty, it ends up being very basic stuff like you know, ‘That feels good, keep going, don’t stop,'” says Marin.
• Everyone’s reacting to the stress of the pandemic differently, some with an explosion of horniness and others with less interest than ever in getting physical.
• The language of the body can be one of affirmation as well as erotic possibility.
• I’d been attracted to women for as long as I’d been attracted to men, so to finally experience sex with one was an awakening for me; it was amazing.
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And yet, the list of movies who’ve accomplished the same feat is painfully abbreviated. Don’t talk to me about Blue is the Warmest Color, a movie made famous for its extended, impractical sex scenes and allegations of harassment by its director, Abdellatif Kechiche. Kechiche reportedly bullied the two female protagonists as well as his staff, forcing them to work 16-hour workdays under extreme pressure. Critics further accused the director of creating “voyeuristic” sex scenes intended to solicit the male gaze. I was recently re-watching some porn DVDs from my collection when I realized I had forgotten how on point superstar Sasha Grey’s dirty talk always is.

Marin suggests trying to read either already written erotica or what you wrote down out loud to yourself in the mirror. It’s a great exercise in getting comfortable with the vulnerability of vocalizing your desires from the comfort of your own company. Our aim is to bring all lesbians together on whole website and make things a little easier for people wanting to make friends online.

First, openly communicate with your partner about your desires and why you’d like to begin the practice. Our resident sexpert Nikquan Lewis agrees with this approach, “The first step is so important. Before getting started, I encourage partners to take time to discuss their sexual boundaries, wants, and desires. Knowing what excites each other and the limits sets a comfortable and healthy foundation,” she suggests. 1985’s Desert Hearts was one of the first majorish films to feature lesbian sex, uh, ever. Bound (1996), the story of a hot ex con lesbian plummer, had some of the hottest lesbian sex scenes in lesbian sex scene history.

As a queer woman myself, I was mostly concerned that the two female characters ate a whole plate of spaghetti without brushing their teeth before commencing intercourse. They execute realistic sex positions that normal, sexual non-Olympians are capable of performing. There’s actual build-up, it’s not just straight porn. Finally, a huge debt of gratitude is owed to you, our devoted readers. Actually, we neglected to acknowledge this occasion in 2021.

“Part of the thrill is using sort of edgy, boundary-pushing epithets that we can reclaim through sex.” When it comes to advanced dirty talk, Horn suggests that you, “really see yourself as a storyteller, a creative person exercising a skill.” If your partner is using words or phrases that don’t work for you, be gentle in how you let them know. Pay attention to the words and phrases your partner is using and adopt them if you’re comfortable. You can share each other’s word banks or just incorporate what’s affirming versus what’s off-limits into natural conversation. “One of the most important basics is understanding what words you like to describe all the parts of your body, as well as your partner’s,” says Horn.